episode 101<\/a>, he just slides into the groove that is happening and adjusts to it. But time away from loved ones will always be hard. It is the life a musician chooses. It is one of those sacrifices if you do in fact see it that way.<\/p>\nI want to share a quick story. This is abrupt but hang in there. It is a great perspective given to me by a stranger, and it applies to this.<\/p>\n
While I was staying in Abbotsford at the Sandman hotel, I popped outside for a bit of fresh air and found myself having a nearly forty-minute conversation with someone who was also staying at the hotel. He was a European man, middle-aged, who was in town because he and his team set up the scoring system screens for horse racing tracks. I can\u2019t remember all of the details of his job, but what I do recall is the fact that he and his team spend upwards of 300 days per year on the road. His name was Tom.<\/p>\n
Tom told me an amazing story about how he was a musician in Europe during his teens and into his twenties. His music became quite popular in Germany and other parts of Europe. He got into electronica toward the end of his music career and had the best management in Europe handling his act at the time. This same management was working for Sigfried Fischbacher. Yes, the world-renowned magician. Well, as it turns out, Tom and Sigfried became very good friends. Sigfried eventually told Tom that he should incorporate magic into his musical show to bedazzle his audience and add something that no one was doing at the time.<\/p>\n
Eventually, Tom\u2019s act became solely a magic show. He bought a caravan and toured all over Europe performing his magic. He eventually gave that up and began this gig with the scoreboard systems. This is, of course, the CliffsNotes version of the story he told me, but there was something very interesting in it all: a perspective that helped me understand a lot more about what some musicians who tour for most of their lives might go through.<\/p>\n
Tom had said that after a week at home, as much as he loved his home (which he showed me a picture of on his phone and it is absolutely lovely) he would get very antsy after a week. Willie Nelson comes to mind.<\/p>\n
What I was getting from Tom was that even though he did miss home when he was away, he was just so used to the life of being in different, far away places all the time. Tom began touring very young. So, really – it is all he knows. He probably feels more at home on the road than at home. Starting late with a career that involves travel might be a totally different story for some people. I just find this idea of detachment from a physical home base really fascinating about musicians, or anyone in entertainment-based careers.<\/p>\n
I wonder how many musicians began playing an instrument because of the appeal of potentially touring? Could that be why some musicians began playing? This is why I think some people are built for the road. There must be so many costs and perks to touring. The adventure! I mean, c\u2019mon, when you are young it would be amazing! This must be a dream for a person who is, other than to him\/herself and music, not committed to anything too significant. Pack up and go whenever you want. Eventually though, I think it is hard to not notice the pressure to conform to adult society. House, marriage, stable job, financial freedom, kid(s) and on it goes.<\/p>\n
I am bringing this up because I know some musicians that never really settled down. When you are young it must be fun, but it seems lonely when you\u2019re older. Props to any musician that has a family at home and with the support of their spouse, manages to find a routine or norm within their family unit. Just something to create some stability. That mustn\u2019t come easy. The thing we love isn\u2019t easily compatible with the idea of settling down – if<\/em> you want to make it your life, that is.
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